Database Choice Is a Product Decision
When teams select a database, they're not just picking a storage layer—they're locking in product constraints for years. Database choices determine your application's latency characteristics, operational costs, and failure modes long before users ever see a feature. Yet these decisions often happen in technical silos, treated as implementation details rather than the product-shaping commitments they actually are. The most expensive databases aren't the ones with the highest licensing fees; they're the ones chosen without understanding how their fundamental tradeoffs will constrain what you can build and how quickly you can ship. The room where these decisions happen matters. When it's just backend engineers and DBAs, you get choices optimized for developer familiarity and operational comfort. That's not wrong, but it's incomplete. Product managers should be present because they understand user expectations around responsiveness and availability. Finance ...